Your Goals Don't Care About Your Feelings

Recently I was away from the fitness world and got speaking to people who seemed very confused when it comes to healthy lifestyles.

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The confusion has come from their “fitness friends”, magazines and influencers that all share a different opinion on how to get the perfect body. 


Having tried various diets I’ve been able to understand what works and what doesn’t and live a pretty healthy life. It all boils down to one thing, but I’ll get to that later. 

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I follow some rules to allow me to keep a healthy lifestyle. So here is a list of 9 rules that could work for you too:

  1. 2-3 litres of water a day 

  2. Cook 90% of my meals on a low(ish) carb diet

  3. Avoid packaged food such as cereal and ready to cook meals, pre-made sandwiches etc. 

  4. Avoid sugary drinks including fruit juice (orange, apple etc.)

  5. Alcohol only 5-10 times per year (friends wedding and birthdays etc.)

  6. 3-6 coffees per week, 

  7. 10% of food made up from the healthiest choice I am able to make

  8. Almost never eat in fast food restaurants (maybe once in the last 5-10 years)

  9. 7-8 hours sleep daily

What it all boils down to

The biggest thing that I can’t emphasise enough is self-discipline.  I don’t know how to teach it or write it up in a list. I’m black and white, I don’t like grey areas. 


Everyone knows what the correct choice is. Should I be going into McDonald's or the healthy salad bar?

This video has some fantastic messages and is worth listening to.


Your goals don’t care about your feelings! 


I don’t buy into the excuse that some people are genetically bigger than others, or they metabolise food differently. This usually comes from people who have a bad diet and life an unhealthy lifestyle. 

While changing lifestyles can be difficult, don’t think of it as a quick fix. These things take patience, consistency, and discipline. No doubt the lifestyle you have now wasn’t the result of eating unhealthy for 3 months, its been years. It will take more than being healthy for 6 weeks to see the change.


I stick to the above list pretty consistently, it’s my lifestyle I that I choose to live by daily, weekly, monthly and yearly.  It's not easy, it can feel like a grind at times, but when its all been said and done, I’m healthy, I’m happy.